"I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone" -Javan
Have you ever noticed that when the seasons start to change and the leaves change color and it becomes chilly out that people tend to gravitate towards the opposite sex? Well, ladies and gents, that can only mean one thing...It's "boo season". LOL Many of you may already know what I'm talking about but for those of you that don't let me catch you up.
"Boo season" is when it gets chilly out and everyone just wants to be close to SOMEONE; whether it be their spouse, significant other, or just someone to be cuddled up with. I'm not sure if it's just the cycle of life but it happens around the same time every year. Never fails!
I have spoken with many friends and associates and everyone seems to be thinking the same thing! Who can I snuggle up with and watch a movie tonight? Or have a meaningful conversation? I know that I've thought about it on occasion. It's only human. Everyone wants to be cared for from birth and we honestly never outgrow it. No matter what anyone says it's the truth.
The biggest problem I've come to find is that most are having a hard time finding exactly what they want. It's like going to Wal Mart searching for an ice cream you've been craving and they not have it in stock. Frustrating right? As of late I've put a lot of thought into what it is I want and honestly I think I've come to a great conclusion. I know what I want and what I want is what God knows I NEED. People aren't always looking for a relationship exactly but what I like to call a "monogamous boo". Goofy huh? Well, I think it makes perfect sense on my sweet little planet. Let me elaborate... A "monogamous boo" is someone that you can converse with on your level, have the same interests or enough to find fun and relaxing things to do, they're support when you need it at 3AM, that you don't have to worry about being out talking to ten different girls or guys, and honestly just someone that's there without the titles. I've come to find that the girlfriend/boyfriend title cliche' disturbs a lot of people. If it blossoms into a relationship then great! But if you're fine with the arrangement that's cool too. It's all about where you are in life and your mindset. I know that I am a college student and my main focus are my studies but a companion doesn't hurt! (If it's that bad I suggest a pet LMBO) I feel as if sometimes the whole love interest area can be like one of those hidden object games. Things you search for the most are the hardest to find, but remember if you want to hide something hide it in plain sight.
Take it as you wish. Just another late night thought that became a Late Night Special.
